The Difference Between A Recovery Coach & A 12-Step Sponsor
Do you understand the difference between a recovery coach and 12-step Sponsor?
Congratulations, you’ve taken the initial steps to get sober!
It is not important whether you recently started reducing harm from your substance use, completed a detox, attended an in-patient treatment program, or are residing in a sober living home. If you took the extra step and moved into a sober living home. such as The Lighthouse sober living in Connecticut, you were paired with a recovery coach, as part of their program.
While working with your coach, he suggested you get a sponsor to work with to get the most from the 12-Step program you’re attending.
When he told you this, you were confused because you didn’t understand why you need both a recovery coach and a 12-Step Sponsor?
Keep reading to understand the difference between a recovery coach and 12-step Sponsor. And why both roles help you achieve sustainable recovery.
The Difference Between a 12-Step Sponsor and a Recovery Coach
A 12-Step sponsor is-
A non-paid peer advocate associated with a particular 12-Step organization. He or she performs the role of mentor or guide, has worked the steps and no longer succumbs to the urge to drink. A sponsor sees his service work as a way of giving back or reciprocity for the life he is gained from the 12-Step program. Service work or giving back to the 12-Step Group increases a participants self-confidence, esteem, and foundation for recovery.
A person in recovery from substance use disorder is qualified to become a sponsor after he or she
Lives by the teachings found in the Big Book for each 12-Step organization
Attending and participating at meetings
Completed the steps with the help of his or her sponsor
Continue to consult his or her sponsor to help newcomers
Helps the newcomer understand how step-work is an ongoing process and thru continued step-work, he or she helps sponsees find fulfillment in a life of recovery.
This person volunteers his or her time with newcomers in the organization through active listening and sharing his experience, strength, and hope. A peer bond is reached through friendship, acts of kindness, and trust.
A sponsor agrees to a source of support and other resources to help the newcomer establish a sense of purpose, belonging, and understanding how performing step work helps to achieve sobriety.
Working and understanding the Steps
The path of recovery strictly adheres to the Steps, Traditions, and Promises of a twelve-step program. Through attending twelve-step support group meetings, you’ll learn how and why the twelve-steps work in your recovery. Your sponsor is responsible for assisting you through the steps while adhering exclusively to the Traditions.
The Traditions of any given twelve-step program do not allow a sponsor to stray from their path to protect the anonymity and foundation of the mutual aid society.
Typically a sponsor and sponsee relationship transform into a healthy friendship rooted in recovery.
Lastly, a sponsor is available during set times to listen to the sponsee needing to talk, share, or ask advice about a specific situation creating stress and the temptation to use drugs or alcohol. A sponsor has to stay within his or her role. In other words, a sponsor doesn’t work with you in accomplishing other goals which do not directly reflect your step work.
A Recovery Coach is
A recovery coach is equivalent to a personal case manager. Your Recovery Coach is a professional employed by you and available to take your call 24 hours 7 days a week. On the other hand, a sponsor’s role is voluntary and is only available during specific times set-up with you.
Your Sober Coach will help you create a plan to achieve your long-term recovery goals. The coach will hold you accountable to complete objectives and achieve each goal of your recovery plan.
Meeting times are set with your recovery coach During these meeting your Recovery Coach, will assess the progress you are making towards each goal, discuss your recovery capital score, and make necessary adjustments where needed.
Unlike a 12-Step Sponsor, you employ and pay for a Recovery Coach’s service. Therefore, he or she will often take phone calls or text messages from you no matter what time of day.
A Recovery Coach will not work on the twelve steps with you. Your 12-Step sponsor is responsible to help you complete step-work.
A Recovery Coach will lead by example using his or her experience to highlight the importance of the suggestions presented to you. Recovery coaches understand what is what isn’t working in your recovery plan because of their life experiences in their personal recovery. The best sober coaches offer suggestions and changes you should consider implementing to achieve your goals.
Most importantly, your coach meets you where you are at in the readiness to change.
Sober Coaches not only help you to achieve sobriety, but help you restore balance to your life on a personal, spiritual, and professional level. While relating to you on a personal level recovery coach will help you maintain happiness and enjoy life in recovery.
Because recovery coaches are extensively connected to the recovery community, they are the link between you and the local recovery resources available to you. Your coach can help you find a 12-step sponsor.
Investing in Recovery Coaching
Making a commitment to your recovery and employing the services of a recovery coach is beneficial for various reasons. Your coach will explain the benefits and usefulness of working the 12-Steps. Remember the choice to participate in any recovery support group is yours to make.
To achieve ultimate happiness in your recovery actively listen to your recovery coaches suggestions. Creating the highest version of your recovered self requires many available resources. Your recovery Coach and Sponsor each have a purpose in mentoring you and providing guidance.
If you or a loved one is interested in committing to working with a recovery coach or learning more how a recovery coach can help you achieve your recovery goals contact The Lighthouse Recovery 365 Coaching Program at 203-246-9435.